Posted by David Chalfant (208.30.14.192) on October 15, 1999 at 14:46:42:
In Reply to: By the way... posted by Carl D on October 15, 1999 at 04:42:32:
Hi Carl. Constant pain can cause anger,in my experience. Yes, I become a bit thin skined when Chs are out of remission. They seem to be sofar. Thank "God" for that. Nice to hear you feeling more hopeful. Bashers ? well, Lack of tolerance ?probably, but all have their moments of goodness deep within. As I have said before, if you see it on the CHMB rather than by private email, YES it is meant to humiliate. Obviouisly, other "problems" are the reason. What goes around comes around.
I have been where you are at in a unrelated issue.
I had to stop giving people power over my emotions. I have a book called " Love without Conditions." by Paul Ferrini. You will see Christ implications, but the book focuses on the essential message of wellness and coping and much more. But I did learn about tolerance , acceptance
and leans twords independance from the reaction of others. Send me your Home address(again) and I will be glad to send you my xtra copy
Take Care
David c