Posted by Elaine (207.69.4.151) on August 04, 1999 at 16:19:35:
In Reply to: I Am So Frustrated Right Now! posted by jen on August 04, 1999 at 14:41:48:
I am 45 spent 17 years fighting my CH alone. Did not want to hurt my family. I had their help on the real bad ones had no chose but to ask for help. I thought I had the best family in the world.
Found out I had cancer and the love of my life asked me for a divorce. Where does a woman 45 with CH and cancer start over. Buddy and I are going to stay married and get along as we always have. He does his thing I do mine. The last 17 years shot to hell.
Now if you try and help and he does not want it and he is rude to you. Then stop now and find another. Don't wait by the phone. I was gone for 16 days and Buddy missed me he also found out I can do thing on my own. I don't have to have him. Lady don't wait till you are old and broken before you see the light.
By the way I have CH had them for 19 years and I am not rude to people who try to help. I want to be sometimes but I try hard not to be that way. Maybe a little short but what rudeness I do show is durning a CH not in between. So I don't think its the CH that makes him rude. Most people are nice when not in a cycle. I am chronic so I should be rude all the time but am not. Don't let this guy treat you this way. Just my opinion !