Posted by Pat on July 03, 1998 at 21:05:25:
In Reply to: Violent Behavior With Cluster Headaches posted by Sue on July 01, 1998 at 15:52:35:
Sue, dear,
*Run don't Walk*
I too develope a violent streak as a precurser
to a series of CHs. I may be easily angered, or
even infuriated, but, there is *never* an excuse
for you to become the object of abuse.
You are not helping him by staying around as a
punching bag. *You* are not the problem, and
you are most certainly not the solution to his
problems.
My nose has been broken three times by folks who
were on the recieving end of my anger, but, I
have never taken this problem to the home front.
Memory lapses, sure, medications can cause a funny
sorta disconnectedness about actions the night
before, but, blackout, gimme a break, sounds more
like alcoholic blackout!
Get out!
Please, for your own good, do not continue this
relationship!
My not so humble opinion is that victims *choose*
their fate.
You, cannot solve his problem, you just enable him
to continue.
Pat