Posted by Barb D (64.12.102.49) on September 03, 2001 at 15:50:44:
In Reply to: What is a peekcker heead? posted by Mike on September 03, 2001 at 15:24:20:
Mike,
Right now, you don't feel good and you're taking what Jonny said in a joking comment out of context. Jonny is one of the most compassionate human beings on the face of this earth (and don't ever let him know I said that - he'd boot me out of Clusterville).
Sometimes, when we hurt like we do, something said in jest hits us the wrong way and we make a mountain out of a molehill. That's what's started about half the fights on this board. In our pain, we think someone is "picking" on us, when in actuality, they're only trying to cheer us up because they know how bad we're hurting and they're trying to help.
I think this would be a good lesson to all of us to try to keep our sense of humor. To have to endure a pain that's beyond human understanding is bad enough, but to lose our only support is beyond my comprehension. This board has been my lifeline for too long.
Hugs BD