Posted by Margi (24.64.69.110) on September 25, 1999 at 19:30:04:
In Reply to: please help me posted by Jessica on September 25, 1999 at 16:33:27:
You just CAN'T be there for your mom all day long. She doesn't want you to do that. She wants you to go out and go to your band class and be happy.
I know how hard it is to leave when she is hurting but you really can't do anything for her by staying home and worrying about her. These headaches won't go away because you worry. These headaches will go away when they are darn good and ready to and not before. You just have to be patient. Remember, clusters won't kill your mom. They just hurt like crazy. They hurt her and they hurt you and Nicole. But you and Nicole have to go on and keep things as normal as possible for your mom. Go to band and then come home and when your mom is not having a headache I can almost guarantee you she will love hearing about what happened during practice.
You've got such a kind heart, Jessica. Thanks for being there for your mom and the rest of your family.
Hugs
Margi