Posted by Fran (209.156.56.190) on July 15, 1999 at 19:00:20:
In Reply to: Supporters - Give me advice posted by glenn on July 13, 1999 at 11:27:31:
My husband is the CH sufferer, after 31 years of marriage we sleep in separate rooms, he has only gotten me up twice to help him, but after the last time I don't think he ever will again. It scared me so bad I wanted to take him to ER but ofcourse he would not go. I think I bugged him to much, he knows that when I am nervousI talk to much. I know if it was reveresed and I was the one with CH I know I could not suffer alone. I guess what I am trying to say is be there when she needs you and back off if she doesnt. I end up with more sleep than he does, so I baby him more than usual. When you love someone we do what we have to do.
Hope she is feeling better
Pain free nights everyone.
Fran