Posted by Bob P on April 30, 1999 at 10:29:26:
In Reply to: Re: Over and Out ! posted by drummer's wife on April 29, 1999 at 23:33:17:
Well spoken, drummer's wife. A lady that's well versed in feelings. It's about owning and being responsible for our own feelings. It's easy to say "you make me mad". Really we're saying I choose to feel mad because of something you said, did, etc. CH doesn't make me feel depressed, CH causes physical pain and I choose to feel depressed because of it. Or I can choose not to feel depressed. Personal choice.
One day at a time, one problem at a time. Good advice. As a whole they seem insumountable. Divide and conquer! Chip away at a bolder and you wind up with sand. I philosophize too much.
Your advice is wise and useful for all of us. Thanks.
Bob P